When love is unconscious it is only lust and nothing else — a beautiful name for an ugly thing.
When love is conscious, only then it is love.
But how many people are conscious?
When love is meditative, only then it is love. And a meditative love will attract a meditative love energy.
You get only what you deserve, remember, neither less nor more. You always get exactly that which you deserve. Existence is very just and very fair. So if you are not getting a soulmate, it is not going to help to frantically
search for one. Rather look in. You are missing something in you — you are missing love qualities. You are not tender, you are not sensitive, you are not conscious. And you don’t know how to give without asking anything in return. Your love is a demand, there is a condition to it.
~ OSHO – The Dhammapada, The Way of the Buddha ( Vol-7)